Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Missy's Side

Evan did a great job telling his side, but it seems he is a little confused on some details. No worries I’ll clear things up! So when I first noticed Evan it was at church when he came up to me and asked for my number! I was excited however right after he asked he also explained that he was my home teacher! When I got home from church my dad said, “I saw a cute guy ask for your number.” And I said, “Yeah he is my home teacher!” He also never called because they changed the home teaching assignments. Then we were put on the activities committee together (I secretly wanted to be put on assignments with him). I always thought Evan was pretty good look-in but nothing ever came from it. At the activity in the summer at our cabin I beat Evan over and over at connect four. As we became friends and after some tennis lesson Evan gave me, we eventually became “more than friends”.

My family went out of town in one weekend and that’s when we had our first date. Everything went really smooth and seriously I know everyone says this but everything fit. We got along really well and our personalities seemed to work together.  The more I got to know Evan the more I wanted to be around him. There was not an overwhelming feeling that I “knew” he was the one rather small confirmations like “Yeah thats what I need/want in a husband). We share a lot of the same views and Evan just seemed to know how help and comfort me. 


When he first asked if we could take our relationship to the next level and I told him I was not ready he was very sweet and kind. The second time he said, “okay that’s fine but seriously if you don’t see this going anywhere let me know lets not waste our time.” He didn’t mean it to be rude he was just honest. And I honestly love that about him he stands up for what he wants and what he believes but isn’t overbearing about it.


I remember when we were just friends I asked if he could help me with some tennis and we were talking about people we have dated. Stories about first blind dates and what not and he said something that really showed character.  He told me that he has never kissed a girl that he did not have feelings for. Evan really treated every girl with that respect. I have always felt respect and love from him. I am so blessed and honestly lucky to have Evan in my life. I am so excited to marry someone who cares for others and is such a hard worker. I could list many many great qualities he has (I actually have in my journal) but all in all I Love Evan! 

1 comment:

  1. Missy!!
    we need to get together soon! I miss you! and seriously I loved what you said here in this about Evan! Trent was laughing at me, because I was smiling the whole time I was reading it:) I can't tell you enough how happy I am for you two! I support and love you so much!

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